2012年2月26日星期日

You Must Be A Realistic Optimist To Reach Your Melaleuca Goals

There is no shortage of experts these days that opine about positive thought and optimism. There are numerous motivational speakers and self-help books that suggest that if Xieda 9958 you believe that you are successful you will be successful. This sounds terrific, but the truth of the matter is that positive thought won't bring about success in Melaleuca. The idea that one can begin to visualize themselves as successful and success will follow can actually have negative consequences. The problem is that so many people believe that success can be easily attained if they stay positive, when thought without action will lead to failure. You can visualize yourself with the perfect mate or with all the financial success you want but if you don't take action it will never happen. I am not saying that you should not be optimistic. In fact optimism and the confidence it creates is essential for creating and sustaining the motivation you need to achieve your goals. There have been a number of studies that have found that the best predictor of an individual's success is whether or not they believe they will succeed. sexy lingerie china There is a difference between realistic optimism and unrealistic optimism. Realistic optimists believe they will succeed but they also understand they have to take action for success to happen. People attain goals through effort, careful planning, persistence, nine Eagles 260A and picking the right strategies. These people get that they will face obstacles and that preparation and persistence and a positive mental outlook will help them overcome obstacles. Unrealistic optimists believe that success will happen to them, that the universe will somehow reward them for positive thinking or somehow transform them into someone who can magically deal with any obstacle with the greatest of ease. Unrealistic optimists will cheerfully tell you that you are being "negative" when you dare to express concerns or dwell to long on obstacles that block your goal. The reality is that thinking and concentrating on how to resolve a problem is necessary in every successful endeavor especially Melaleuca. The truth is that focusing on only what you desire to the exclusion of everything else will not bring about your success. There is a difference between wishing and hoping for success and taking positive action to achieve it.

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